appearance,?
is it so bad to want to change ur appearance?
hair color wearing contacts?
changin clothing?
weight?
or is it normall …
to me i think doing all that is good so a person can feel good about ur self.
or bad cuz u want to change ur self and u dont love ur self already.
you can love yourself and still want to make improvements on your appearance. As long as you know that looks aren’t the only thing.
if you want to change your appearance so you like it, good.
i know people say you shouldnt care about what people think, but if i feel like people think i look good, i feel i look better, and i feel good about myself and more confident.
every now and then i change something (usually hair) just cuz im sick of it.
Wearing glasses never felt like me, so I was happy to switch to contacts. As long as you have realistic expectations (we can’t all be 6′4″ super models) for what you want to be, have fun.
You should love yourself just the way you are!
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You should have fun trying new things if you want to!
nothing wrong with wanting to alter your appearance to your satisfaction, if you don’t love yourself now, you can teach yourself to be confident without changing every aspect of your being.
just don’t make the mistake of changing for someone else. so many girls do that and end up disliking themselves even more after experiencing rejection. if you’re going to change at all, do it because you want to for yourself, not for a guy or anything.
but you should love yourself, no matter what it takes =]
i think that you can change yourself as much as you want as long as you feel good about yourself
To Me Ur Open To Changing The Appearance Cuz It Makes U Have More Self-Confidence, But The Most important Is If u Do Change Dont Change Ur Ways, Like As In Personalitly Wise, Jus Becuz U Feel N Look Like A new Person Doesent Mean U Change Everything, But Also Guys Look For Tha Natural Type Beauty, Tha More Natural u Are tha more Ur Likely Ta Get Liked.
I think it’s normal. Yeah it’s about feeling good about yourself, but people also have the pressure to change with fashion. Scary yes, but fashion even includes how skinny you should be. Besides that, your opinions keep changing until you die, and appearance being a form of expression, I would say your appearance would continue to change too. Completely normal.
there is nothing wrong with changing ur apperance but first I think you should try to find out whats really bothering you and look down deep and help yourself and fix it. Once you do that and hopefully it works you won’t feel that you should have to change your apperance to make yourself love yourself more. And rather changing your apperance to make you love yourself more you will do it b/c you just wanna change not to just make urself more loved. Hope I helped!